My Love Memory

How to Make Every Day Mother's Day...

2009-05-10T04:35:00.000-07:00

Convincing people that moms deserve a break every day is harder than you might think. Although people are quick to honor their mothers with trinkets and a day without laundry once a year, they are often unaware of the enormous sacrifices that mothers make over the span of a lifetime.

1. Thank her every day. Many mothers feel that the little things they do that make life easier for everyone else goes unnoticed. Saying thank you to her for the little things will make her feel appreciated.

2. Help her. Every mother, especially a mother of small children, is sleep deprived. Despite this fact, she has to stay busy from the time she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep just to do all of the things that have to be done for her family to survive. Helping her out by doing some things for her every day will make her think that every day is Mother's Day.

3. Allow her to relax. Moms are busy and usually have very little down time to relax. Find ways to encourage her to relax. For example, invite her to sit down a watch a movie with the family.

4. Do something unexpected. Think of something you think she would enjoy. You can take her out to dinner or take her to have a manicure or massage. A child can clean up his room without being told.

5. Hire a maid to come once a week or more often to do the major cleaning tasks take the stress of having to do those tasks off of Mom. You can have the maid come for a just a couple of hours or have her stay all day. Either way, her services will make Mom feel appreciated.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

How to Make a Mom Happy

2009-05-10T04:24:00.000-07:00

1. Pay attention. No mom in the history of momkind has ever been happy about having to repeat herself. Listen to her the first time and pay attention. Make an effort to really do this and watch the happy happen.

2. Do your share of the housework without being asked or reminded. Make your bed, pick up after yourself, cook a meal, swish the toilet, wash your own dishes, etc. Don’t wait for her to remind you. Whatever you do, don’t wait for her to do it for you.

3. Buy her a present. Sure, it’s the thought that counts, but every mom has a collection of homemade candy dishes and cards. Spend a couple of dollars out of your own money on something she will really enjoy and watch her eyes light up. Sometimes, the effort can mean even more than the thought.

4. Give her a real day off. Make it a full day and don’t cop out by choosing Mother’s Day or her birthday. Pick a random day and handle as many of the things she normally does as possible. Do the laundry, grab the mail, pick up groceries, make dinner and pick up younger kids at school.

5. Be nice. Have a good attitude and be project good cheer throughout the day. Be polite and resist the urge to argue. A day without sarcasm or arguments can make even the most hardened mom happy.

6. Take her out. Take her to breakfast and her favorite bookstore. Go bead or yarn shopping if that’s her thing or take her to the racetrack if that’s what she would prefer. Whatever you do, make sure it is something she wants to do.

7. Talk with her. Ask her about her day and give her all the time she needs to answer. Let her go into detail or run off on tangents. People do a lot of talking to and at moms, but not nearly as much talking with them.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Why Do Jerks Get All The Women

2009-05-05T00:54:00.000-07:00

I got a very interesting

lesson for you today. It will be one of the MOST crucial because now, we are facing our first challenge: determining what basket women will throw you into. Let's get into it:

Can you remember the last time you saw a gorgeous young woman walking down the street but some ugly-mug has HIS arm around her?

Maybe in high-school, at college or at work this incident has happened to you more than on one occasion.

You had your eye on this girl you thought was off the scalein the looks department and you COULDN'T wait to ask her out or to get her number get her number but then ... you realized she had a boyfriend happens to be a complete jerk!

He treates her like garbage and yes, she even tells YOU about her relationship problems with him.

Does that ring a bell?

I bet half of my lunch that you were wondering why she was telling you all about her problems and NEVER wanted more than just to be friends.

I know that all this time you were trying to figure out the big WHY's and even said to yourself "Hmm, that is weird. I would treat her just like she DESERVES to be treated - like a princess. Why the hell does she not go out with me but with this jerk who treats her like sh*t instead?"

You really wanna know WHY you never got any?

Think about it. First of all, you ARE her girlfriend. That's why she's telling you about all her problems and shares stories about guys with you.

Secondly, you AREN'T seeing clearly whats really going on here: Why do you think she is going out with such a jerk in the first place? Why is she fucking him and not you?

Oh, might it be because ... he is hot? Yep he is! She is feeling that emotion that tells her "wow, this guy is hot!" when she's around him. In other words: she is ATTRACTED to him!

He makes her feel this magical word called ATTRACTION. You on the other hand were nothing more than being "nice" and "polite".

You see, women aren't attracted to nice guys because they are BORING. Jerks are the complete opposite of a clingy, whiney nice guy, they're FUN and challenging!

While you would buy her dinner, invite her to the movies and act all "you look very nice tonight" he just goes like "C'mere baby. I don't want you to wearing that top when I'm not around capiche? Ok good, gimme a kiss".

He does what HE wants, demands, plays by his ownrules and is pretty arrogant as well.

But how come women are attracted to bad boys so much more than they are to nice guys that would treat them so much better?

Tomorrow I will talk more about bad boys while you might

play it nice and be all polite but he is bad, he is mean, he is

abusive and he is an asshole. BUT ... he is getting all the girls while the wusses are staring blank at the wall alone.

It's time to fix this once and for all.

I DON'T want you to become a jerk or mean bastard whendealing with women, but it is better to be bad than good!Being nice doesn't get you anywhere.You'll discover all the time-tested tips, tricks and techniquesabout ATTRACTING and dating women more easily and quickly

than you've ever thought possible.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

How to Get Your Crush (for Boys and Girls)

2009-04-27T02:37:00.000-07:00

Do you have a crush? Here's what to do.

Smile and occasionally look at them from across the room, then look away. Repeat until they smile back or approach you. If the smile seems a bit full on, try glancing at them, then look away for a split second. If they are interested they will most likely still be looking at you. If so, you could try a smile or if you're daring, approach him or her.

Go up and introduce yourself to him or her. Guys/girls normally will turn on to you if you act friendly and flirt at a minimum, not if you full out lunge at them, which may freak them out. Be confident, not cocky! Just be yourself. People relax a lot better if the other person is relaxed as well. Don't press, keep the conversation small, you just met. Be calm, cool, and collected.

If you are not so sure that they like you, ask them to do something outside of school; possibly bring them to a park or with your friend and possibly his or hers as well. Then if things are going well ask if they want to go for a walk with you or something. Just you and them; nobody else.

If you feel that you're okay with it, tell them how you feel. Make sure they like you too; if not, things could get awkward.

Do your research about them, learn their favorite sport, hobby, etc. People are more attracted to those who are smart and those who take an interest in them. Read their Myspace or Facebook profile for interest if they have one.

Make sure to have gum or mints. No one likes bad breath.

Ask them out! They are usually hoping for you to do it (if you're a guy). Girls on the other hand might really want you, but they are sometimes a bit more nervous and don't want to seem "pushy & aggressive".

If they reject you, you can always have a clever comeback! Like if you go up to them and ask,"Do you like me?" and they say,"Yes, as a friend." then you could say back,"Good. Me too. I was just asking because I thought you didn't like me as a friend..." and so on and so forth.

Maybe if things are going well and you and the boy or girl have been talking in school for a while, you can get their number!

Flirt with other boys/girls! If you really like them then flirt in front of them. This gives you the chance to see their reaction. If they laugh or smile they probably have no interest in you, but be careful they may be hiding their emotions.

1. Sometimes, it is a bad idea to tell all of your friends you like someone. The best of friends can go ahead and tell your crush without your permission.

2. Try new looks; a new haircut can do wonders to your confidence.

3. A friendly smile is your best weapon.

4. Try to make them laugh; humor is the best aphrodisiac.

5. Do not insult and pick fights when you are around him or her; petty malice is not attractive.

6. Do not hang all over your crush, he or she might think it is weird. Being too clingy is a turn off.

7. Do not try to annoy your crush, but don't shower him/her too much in compliments either. Balance is good.

8. Do not stalk your crush. For example, having pictures of him or her, and following your crush are common stalking behaviors.

9. If your crush already has feelings for another person, it is okay to still talk, unless they find it annoying. Wait for a more appropriate time.

10. If you think the person returns your feelings, casually say or hint your true feelings. Do not get emotional with a big confession. If your crush does not feel the same way as you do, then just smile and walk away.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Doomed from the Beginning?

2009-04-14T03:22:00.000-07:00

Doomed from the Start?

When you first start dating a man or woman who you have been attracted to, you might be all starry-eyed and dreamy. But as time goes by you realise the relationship was a mistake and then wish you had seen the problems right from the start. While there is no way of knowing in an instant, it is possible to gauge whether a relationship is over even before it has begun, if only you look for the signs. What are those signs?

Oh! My problems

When you first start dating, there are several things that you can talk about; what the person does, their likes and dislikes, etc. However, if your date can only talk about their unending problems and how hopeless a place the world is, please back off. For, you are probably heading for a relationship that will end up being bitter.

Stood you up

If there is a genuine reason, he or she deserves a second chance. But if it is a silly reason and they did not even bother to inform you, walk away now. Don't wait for a few more stand-ups before realising this person is only full of excuses and can't respect someone enough to at least inform them that he or she won't show up.

Secrets

When two people get together and the relationship is new, there is no reason that one would want to keep it a secret, unless they are unsure about it. This is a sign that your man or woman is not sure about you and wants to buy time before making the relationship 'official.' But if they are being evasive, watch out, maybe there is a third party involved.

Friends disapprove

Your friends probably know you better than anyone else. If they are apprehensive about the new man or woman in your life, listen to them. Hopefully your friends are the kind of people who look out for you. If your closest friend, who you trust and will only have your best interests at heart warns you - don't be blinded by love; listen to him or her.

Lying

A sure sign that your relationship isn't going to get very far is when there are lies being said right from the beginning. If you find out that your new partner has lied to you about something, remember that he or she probably has the capacity to tell bigger lies later on as well. A relationship cannot survive without trust, and only a fool would trust a liar. So be aware of how much your partner is willing to bend the truth. When a relationship goes wrong it can cause a lot of hurt and anger. Of course, it is hard to be guarded when you're in love, but you can at least try to avoid heart break by reading the signs.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Seduction Guide

2009-04-14T03:20:00.000-07:00

Your six-point seduction guide

1) Reach into his pocket for the keys: Well, more than just the keys. The lesson is: Never underestimate the power of an unexpected touch. Just by stimulating your partner's nerve endings when they're not prepared for it, you create a positive physical connection that leaves your lover wanting more.

2) Keep him out of the loop: Remember, the less you tell him, the more interested he'll become in you. So to hook him in, when you're chatting, give him the conclusion of the conversation first. For instance, "I got the job," and then stop and wait. You've gotten his attention, now let them draw out of the details.

3) Make small changes for big results: The trick to activate desire is to depart from your everyday look. Maybe take a break from your trousers and move around in an evening gown.

4) Compliment your lover the right way: There's a trick to buttering up your lover right. Make the compliment obscure and exclusive and it will sound more genuine. He may dismiss your flattery with a wave of the hand, but deep down, he'll be loving every second of it.

5) Give your lover a sensory flashback: Think about when you first fell for your partner. What reminds you both of that time. Figure it out and you've found the secret to conjuring up that new-love rush. Your lover will experience something that they associate with falling in love with you; those intense, sensual memories will trigger a positive a physical reaction and generate instant longing.

6) Check out competition: Love works in bizzare ways. If you want to renew your partner's passion for you, slyly capture the eye of someone attractive. It adds a bit of jealousy and a lot of attention.

To smoke your lover's interest, trail someone with your gaze or flash a flirty smile at one of his friends when you know you're being watched. And it never hurts to make an extra bit of effort with your looks when you know you'll be in a situation where others will admire you. Just the possibility of others eyeing you all night will definitely make them appreciate that they're lucky to have you.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Make A Call After Your First Date

2009-03-08T04:00:00.000-07:00

When You Are Supposed To Make A Call After Your First Date

Though it may seem like trivia, “when to call after the first date?” is an important question. Calling too soon may make you appear to be the clingy sort. On the other hand, waiting too long before you make a call may cast you in the light of a person who doesn’t care much.

Once the date is over, the first impression that you have made must be strengthened (if the first impression was good, of course). If due to some unfortunate circumstance, you did not really create an impression you wanted to, you could call in order to rectify your mistakes.

What does one talk about after a date? If the date went well, that is, if you both enjoyed and you believe that things could work out between you, then you should ideally have no trouble looking for things to talk about. Tell the other how you had such a good time with them. Ask them whether they enjoyed. Then you could discuss about meeting up again.

The best time to call is 3-4 days after your first date. That gives the other person time to think and examine all the positives and negatives of the date. You may be a little uncomfortable giving the other time to rethink of all the follies you may have made, but it is for the best. A relationship can never work if either partner remains ignorant about the other’s drawbacks. Waiting for a few days also makes the other a little anxious about why you have not called so far or whether they made some mistake during the date. This makes them all the more eager to please when you do call up. Also, during this time, your date might just call you up and then you will know for sure that they did have a good time!

Calling immediately after a date or even on the next day is not a good idea. It is always better to keep the other in suspense about their success for some time. You don’t want to appear too easily pleased. Take some time to think about the date, or atleast appear to. Consider whether or not you can be happy with the person in question. It will always give a better impression if you have thought before reaching a decision. It will also be more flattering for the other person. If you call up too soon, you may be taken as a clingy person who will eventually suffocate the other person in a relationship. Remember a relationship requires you to give time and space to your partner.

A little thing like when to call makes a large difference to your relationship. So weigh your decisions before you act because every little thing counts!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Feel fall in love to someone....?

2009-03-08T03:51:00.001-07:00

Feel fall in love to someone....?

or likely someone love u ?
Check this out :

1. Person who love u will never give u a reason why he loves u. he only knows tat u are in his eyes

2. If u already have a bf, he will not care. For him u are still happy and u are still his dream

3. Person who love u will accept u whatever u are, in his eyes u are still the most beautiful eventhough u feel urs body is over weight or obese.

4. The person who loves u always want to know what are u doing for a whole day, he want to know what are your activities

5. The person who loves u will send u a sms such as, good morning, good night, happy sunday, eventhough u will not reply his messages

6. If u celebrate ur birthday, and u didn’t invite him, he will send u a message or say happy birthday to u.

7. The person who loves u will remember every single moment that he has done with u, eventhough u have already forgotten for every detail of that moment, because that moment is the most precious to him.

8. The person who loves u will remember every single word u said and maybe the word u also forgot ever said it.

9. The person who loves u will learn to like ur favourite songs and even maybe borrow ur cds/cassetes, because he want to know what u like.

10. If last time u met, u was under the illness, he will send u a sms a few days later to ask how are u. Because he care about u.

11. If u tell him, u will have a test, he will ask u when the test is and when the day of ur test comes he will send u a sms "Good Luck" to encourage u.

12. The person who loves u will give his things that u will think its usual for u but for him, that is the most precious.

13. The person who loves u will silence for a while when he is talking with u by a phone, because that time he feel nervous, because u are "shaking his world" now.

14. The person who loves u always want to be beside u and near u, and he want to spend his days only with u.

15. If someday u have to move to another town he will give u an advice to beware of ur new environment than can give u a bad impact.

16. The person who loves u will do more like a best friends than a lover.

17. The person who loves u will do something stupid like call u a 100 times on a day, or wake u up in the night by sms or call u, because that moment he is thinking about u.

18. The person who loves u sometimes miss u and make something that annoy u or make u feel crazy, and when u say u are feel annoyed, he will apologize and promise will not do it again.

19. If u ask him to teach u something, he will teach u with patience even though u are the dumbest people in the world.

20. If u see his HP and u will see Ur name are in the whole message in box. He still saves the message from u even though u send that messages since a month ago or a year.

21. And If u avoid him or reject him, he will realize and dissapear from ur life, even though it kills his heart.

22. If someday u miss him and wanna give him a chance, he will there, waiting for u because he never search another.

I hope I can get a chance my cutie-pie…………………

-- ALAGARAJAN --

You Have To Be Different

2009-03-08T03:49:00.000-07:00

Hi , My Fans

Are the wheels slowly turning in your head
and you're starting to get WHAT this dating
game is all about? Good, because you will
get to know one of the most important topics
when dating girls in a while:

Think about this: You see a hot woman at a bar
and you ask her straight out of the blue "Excuse
me ... I'm sorry to bother you but I just wanted
to let you know that you have lovely eyes".

Do you think you'll get SOMEWHERE?

Probably NOT buddy. How come?

First of all it isn't just nicey-nice, insecure and
doesn't create any attraction, it is fucking lame!
Look, she gets that line (and many other variations
of it) like what? 46 times a week? So you come
along and think to yourself "Wow dude, check out
those legs over there ... I'll go over and complement
her on something, maybe she'll like me".

All she does though is "Well thank you", smiles and
turns around again to talk to her girlfriends.

And you ... you got BUSTED!

You just came off like all these other guys who say
the exact same stuff over and over again, such as:

- Hi, can I buy you a drink

- Do you wanna dance?

- Can I get your number?

- Do you wanna have a drink sometime?

- You have pretty eyes *drool over titties*

You have to be DIFFERENT. If you're not, then she'll
just say to herself "gosh, another one ..." and thinks
"You know, let's just be friends ok?".

Yep that sucks but you deserve no better if you're
like every other NICE-guy out there.

Do you know what women want then? C'mon,
quick and simple ... what do they want?

Yes, they want a "Real Man."

The next question you'll ask of course is "so
WHAT describes a real man and WHAT makes
him so darn different from the bunch?".

But I'll help ya out a little. There are three basic
steps in this game if you start from scratch. Don't worry,
I figured everything out for ya but I want you to start
using those brain-cells as well for now, okay?

Good. Here are the three steps EVERY guy
HAS to accomplish to become good at this:

1. First, you will need to FIND OUT what women actually want

2. Second, you will need to BECOME what women want.
This is just a process of honing and improving yourself,
not a process of complete change.

3. And third, you will need to SHOW and DISPLAY to
women that you are what they want. That's what you
call "pick-up girls", "macking" and "getting it on baby!"

This is the road of the Playboy, Ladies-man and Real man.
If you just want to get a girlfriend or conquer hundreds of
women is up to you.

But if you are and do what most guys out there do,
then you will get exactly the same: A kiss on the
cheek, a hug and a "let's just be FRIENDS instead"

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Signs He's Flirting

2009-03-06T05:41:00.000-08:00

How to Tell If a Guy is Flirting With You

1) He is all over you from the first moment he meets you, even before you've exchanged two words.

2) He asks you very little about yourself and your life, preferring to flirt wildly instead.

3) His banter is sexually charged and he pays you lots of exaggerated compliments.

4) He is often very physical with you, touching you almost immediately.

5) If you're out with friends, he tries to separate you from the group instead of joining it and getting to know the people you're with.

6) He asks for your number as soon as he can, and may suggest that the two of you go to a late-night bar that same evening, where he will try to seduce you.

7) He puts pressure on you to have sex with him the first time you go out.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

February 14

2009-02-14T04:04:00.000-08:00

Today is the day ,where many people throughout the world celebrating happy (Saint) Valentine's Day. Though the festival commemorates the martyrdom of a Christian saint called St Valentine, the festival as it is celebrated today has little religious significance.Valentine's Day is a festival that cherishes love and romance..most probably all the lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, flowers, and Valentine's gifts.

Going on a date with one's Valentine is another popular tradition of Valentine's Day festival. Candle light dinners or evening together in a park are an all-time favorite dating idea in present times.On February 14, the spirit of love pervades the very atmosphere. One can find couples thronging parks, restaurants, malls and multiplexes holding hands and expressing love for each other.

For Couple

For some lovers the day begins by whispering ‘I love you' in the ears of beloved.Though one may say that love is to be celebrated everyday and not just one, lovers cherish the fact that there is exclusively a festival that celebrates love and lovers and provides opportunity to pamper their beloved with love.

For Single

Many single men and women go to the extent of calling Valentine's Day a ‘Singles Awareness Day'. This is because they feel that the day strongly reminds them of their unattached status and not having someone to spend the day in romantic and much popularized manner. Initials of the day ‘S-A-D' reflect their status of feeling depressed and unloved.

Pamper yourself
Buy yourself cute Valentine's Day gifts which could be flowers, a cute teddy or a dress you have been planning to buy since long. Singles may also indulge themselves by going in for spa or head to toe beauty treatment. Indulging in books, CDs, and gourmet meals can be a good way of enjoying the day for some.

Freak out with friends
Plan out a dinner or movie with best friends. You may also throw a “singles party” or “Un-Valentine's Day Party” at your home and have a blast. You will know that life is fun in the company of loving friends.

Acts of Service
Singles can spend Valentine's Day in the meaningful way by spending time with the needy and downtrodden. You may visit an orphanage or old age home and spend time with the inmates there who are always in need of love and affection. Visiting hospitals and giving roses to sick can also be a touching way of experiencing bliss on Valentine's Day.

Express Gratitude for friends and dear ones
Instead of feeling depressed and ashamed for not having a significant other to spend the day, singles can spend Valentine's Day in a constructive manner by expressing love and affection for people around them. One can thank and greet Valentine's Day to one's parents, friends, colleagues, neighbors or anyone dear.

Think Positive
Singles can make the most of Valentine's Day by thinking positive and fighting away Valentine's Day blues. One should not spend the day sulking for not having a spouse or beloved to spend the day in a happy manner.

Focus on Relationship Plan
Singles can focus on their relationship plan on Valentine's Day and prepare themselves for healthy and lasting relationships. One can take help of dating and matrimonial sites to find a partner. Also make a list of what you can do to improve your personality. It could be developing a more healthy and positive approach towards life or working towards one's diet, health and physical appearance. Take steps you think are vital to improve your chances for relationship. Make some resolutions for yourself and stick to them.

Beyond Lovers

Some people also like to celebrate Valentine's Day in a constructive manner by performing acts of charity. One can visit orphanage, old age home and hospitals and spend time with those who crave for attention and affection.

Meaning of Different Colors of Roses

Rose of different colors symbolizes different emotions and feelings. One therefore needs to be careful while presenting a rose to loved one:

Red Roses - Love and passion
White Roses - True love, purity of the mind and reverence
Yellow Roses - Friendship, celebration and joy
Pink Roses - Friendship or Sweetheart, admiration
Peach Roses - Desire and excitement or appreciation
Lilac Roses - Love at first sight and enchantment
Coral Roses - Desire
Orange Roses - Enthusiasm and desire
Black Roses - Farewell or "It's Over"
Bouquet of Red and Yellow Roses: Happiness and celebrations
Bouquet of Red and White Roses: Bonding and harmony
Bouquet of Yellow and Orange Roses: Passion

Valentine's Day Poem

To touch your beloved's heart memorize a cute Valentine Day Poetry and say it while holding hands and looking deep into his/her eyes.

Be my Valentine

I think of you often...I do,
From morning 'til evening I do,
When memories bring laughter
Or moments bring pain,
There is faithfulness, too, once again.

And time always shows me
And God always shows me
Both sunshine and rain,
How, we gain yearly
From the love we're share dearly.

So, my dear, my sweet bubbaloo,
Remember our love, dulce bubbaloo,
For we've come so far and there's so much to come
And I have love to yet give
For the life we will live...together.

Make little of what makes you cry,
Be sure that what makes you cry
Has greater desire and a more certain will
To pray for His help from above
and restore the feelings of love.

So let's stir up our passion today,
Let memories give way today,
To the now and the future
For the joys and hopes and for all
The times my heart hears you call.

I'm so glad,
I'm so glad,
I love you
You love me fine
Be my Valentine.

You've Touched My Heart

You've given me a reason
For smiling once again,
You've filled my life with peaceful dreams
and you've become my closest friend.

You've shared your heartfelt secrets
And your trust you've given me,
You showed me how to feel again
To laugh, and love, and see.

If life should end tomorrow
And from this world I should part,
I shall be forever young
For you have touched my heart

Valentine's Day Songs

The Power of Love - Celine Dion

The whispers in the morning
Of lovers sleeping tight
Are rolling like thunder now
As I look in your eyes

I hold on to your body
And feel each move you make
Your voice is warm and tender
A love that I could not forsake

(Chorus - 1)
'Cause I am your lady
And you are my man
Whenever you reach for me
I'll do all that I can

Lost is how I'm feeling lying in your arms
When the world outside's too
Much to take
That all ends when I'm with you

Even though there may be times
It seems I'm far away
Never wonder where I am
'Cause I am always by your side

(Chorus - 1)

(Chorus - 2)
We're heading for something
Somewhere I've never been
Sometimes I am frightened
But I'm ready to learn
Of the power of love

The sound of your heart beating
Made it clear
Suddenly the feeling that I can't go on
Is light years away

(Chorus - 1)

(Chorus - 2)

Valentine's Day Dating

Going for a date with sweetheart is the most popular way of celebrating Valentine's Day festival. Those in love start thinking about unique Valentine's Day dating ideas days in advance to ensure a romantic and memorable time with their beloved. However, those without a date start registering themselves for various online and offline dating services so that they do not miss out on the fun the couples enjoy on a Valentine's Day.

Going for Adventure Sports
If you and your partner enjoy adventure sports, plan out a session on Valentine's Day !! Go for ice -skating, river-rafting, para sailing or any other activity that is possible in your vicinity and have a great time.

Cooking Together
You must have gone to restaurants many times, but this Valentine's Day try cooking a meal with your beloved. It would be great fun! Get a recipe book in case you need some tips and lay out the table in an elaborate manner to add joy to the celebrations.

Take a Tour of Your City
On Valentine's Day you may plan a tour of your city with your beloved. You may show each other your favorite spots or places where you grew up like school, college or office. This would help you get to know each other better and will therefore strengthen your relationship. Alternatively, you may visit museums, art galleries, or other spots you don't usually visit for lack of time or opportunity. This way you can create beautiful memories together.

Go for Picnics
A great Valentine's Day dating idea would be to go for picnic at your favorite spot. Plan out activities you can enjoy in that spot. Places with a river and boating facility are an ideal picnic spot for romantic dates.

Movie and Candle Light Dinner
This is an ideal and an all time favorites Valentine's Day dating idea amongst lovers. You may also go for concerts or theatre for a change. Read out a romantic poetry holding your lover's hand for greater and more bewitching impact.

List of Valentine's Day Games:

Paper Dance
Valentine can be made special and fun-filled by dancing with your partner on a piece of paper. Play the game of Paper Dance and make it a most interesting Valentine's Day celebration.

How to Play:
1. The dancing couple has to dance on a paper and every 2 minutes the paper is folded half and the couple has to dance on that piece of paper only.
2. If one of the partners or both slip or dance outside the paper then the couple is out of the competition. The couple that dances till the end of the game on that small paper wins the game.
3. Isn't it a romantic idea of dancing so close to your partner and at the same time win the competition? Well, it's like you have your cake and eat it too.

Know Your Mate
"Know Your Mate" is a Valentine's Day game for the couples. It will help you know how well you understand your partner.

How to Play:
1. The host needs to prepare some questions to be asked to the couples. For eg - questions like interests and hobbies, place where they met first or the most happiest moment.
2. First, call all the males in a room. Ask the questions and note down all the answers given by each of them
3. Next, call the females inside the room and let the males leave the room.
4. Ask the same questions and note down the answers.
5. Now, call all the males inside and match the answers of both the partners.
6.The couple with the highest number of matched answers wins and are called the 'Perfect Match'.

Cupid's Tree Scavenger Hunt
Things Needed:
Tree branch
Jar
Marbles or stones
Paper
Small gifts
String

How to play:
1. Set up a Valentine's tree centerpiece on the dining room table. A small bare branch held upright in a jar of marbles or stones works well.
2. Write clues on small pieces of paper for items that the kids must find or make of paper and hang on the tree. Then tie the clues onto the branches of the tree.
3. When the kids come back with the last item, have small gifts waiting under the tree.

Tips for Clues:
To create clues, try the following, or use your own funny riddles:
1. I like to bark and chase a stick. Draw a picture of me and hang it up quick.
2. I've got five points and twinkle in the sky. Cut me out of tinfoil and put me up high.
3. Although my name rhymes with stupid, I'm as cute as can be. Cut my shape out of paper and hang me on the tree.

Valentine's Day Word Games
This is a word game where famous pairs come together.
How to play:
Divide the children into 2 teams and form two rows facing each other. The first player on one side begins by asking the first player on the other team to complete this famous couple:
"Romeo and ....." the opposing player says "Juliet"
Continue down the row of players and then the other team starts...."peanut butter and ....."
"jelly"
"Cookies and......." - milk
"Ram and......" Sita
"Cinderella and ....." - Prince Charming
"Heer and ....." - Ranjah
And so on.

Variation:
This game can also be played using hearts that had been cut into two piece puzzles. Children can be asked to match the hearts.

Love Story
How to play:
Give each player a piece of paper and a pencil.
Explain to them that they are working as a team to write a Love Story section by section.
Each player writes a portion of the story as per your instructions.
After each instruction the papers are folded and passed to the next writer.
When the instructions are completed, each player/writer will have a story in their hands.
Take turns unfolding the papers and reading the stories.

Suggested writing instructions:
Girl Character's name -->pass
Description of Girl -->pass
Boy character's name -->pass
Description of him-->pass
How the boy and girl meet-->pass
First words boy said to girl-->pass
How she replied-->pass
What happened next-->pass
What did their friends say/do? -->pass

Other options for plot turns:
What did the neighbors say ?
What happened on their first Date?
Where did they get married ? Kids ? Pets ? Adventures ?
What did the newspaper print about them ?
Use famous people and places.

Valentine Charades
How to play:
Before the party write some appropriate phrases, book titles, song titles and famous love stories (movies).
Place the slips of paper into an empty heart box.
Divide the players into teams and have them play facing each other.
Each player will draw a slip of paper from the heart box and in turn act out their song, book, title etc. for their respective team.

Clues and Hints to remember:
NO talking!
Open hands represents book
Cranking motion represents movie
Waving hand before and open mouth represents Song
Tugging on your ear represents "sounds like"
Holding up one finger means 1st word etc.
Touching your nose indicates correct answer.

Throwing the Smile
In this game, players are forbidden to smile, but trust us--giggling and laughing will abound.
Things Needed:
A place where everyone can sit in a circle

How to play:
Players sit in a circle, making sure they can see everyone else. One player starts the game by smiling widely, while all the other players are somber.
This player then uses his hand to wipe the smile off his face and throw it to another player who has to catch the smile with his hand and put it on.
This new then wipe off the smile to throw to someone else--though he will probably choose to mug wildly at everyone for a few minutes before relinquishing his happy role.
Meanwhile, all other players must sit stone-faced. One smirk and they're out.

Tips:
The youngest players are the least successful at winning this game (they simply can't stop themselves from laughing), but they also tend to enjoy it the most.

Gigglebelly
Just the name of this game cracks kids up; playing it only intensifies their joy.

How to play:
Have one player lie down on his back.
The next player lies down with his head resting on the first player's belly and the next player lies down with her head on the second player's belly.
Arrange all the players until everyone is zigzagged around the lawn or floor, each with his or her head on someone else's belly (if possible, make the line into a loop so that the last player can put her head on the first player's belly).
Then, the first player shouts, loud and clear, "Ha!"
The second player responds with a vigorous, "Ha, ha!" then the third player chimes in, "Ha, ha, ha!"
Continue until all players have shouted out their "Ha's" or (more likely) have dissolved into uncontrollable laughter, with heads bouncing on the bellies of giggling friends, uncles, cousins or grandmothers.

Valentine's Day SMS

Romantic Valentine SMS
No poems no fancy words I just want the world to know that I LOVE YOU my Princess with all my heart. Happy Valentines Day.
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My eyes are blind without your eyes to see,
Like a rose without color. Always be there in my life sweetheart.
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U r unique
U r caring and
U r the Best.
And I am d luckiest to have U in my life!
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY MY SWEET HEART!
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Without Love -- days are sad day, moan day, tears day, waste day, thirst day, fright day, shatter day. So be in love everyday...Wish you a Happy Valentines Day.
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If I could die early I would ask God if I could be your guardian angel, so I could wrap my wings around you and embrace you whenever you feel alone.
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Let's share the world
A sea is for you, and waves are for me.
The sky is for you, and stars are for me.
The sun is for you, and light is for me.
Everything is for you, and you are for me.
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Here is my heart, it is yours so take it,
Treat it gently, please do not break it.
Its full of love thats good and true,
So please keep it always close to u.

Miss You SMS
If u wanna know how much I miss you,
Try to catch rain drops,
The ones u catch is how much u miss me,
and the ones you miss is how much I miss
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Memories sometimes behave in a crazy way. They leave u alone,
when u are in a crowd & when u are alone they stand along with u like a crowd.
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In School, They Taught Me That
1 hour = 60 Mints
1 Min = 60 Secs
But They Never Told Me That
1 Sec Without You = 100 Years:
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When the sky looks blue "I Miss u" when the dreams come true "I Miss u" when the flowers covered with dew "I Miss u" when the day comes new "I Miss u"
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I heard someone whisper your name, but when I turned to see who it was, I noticed it was alone, then realized it was my heart beat telling me “I MISS U”
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In The Flower My Rose Is You,
In The Diamond My Kohinoor Is You,
In The Sky My Moon Is You,
I'm Only Body My Heart Is You,
That's Why I Always MISS YOU

Love SMS
If you wake up 1 day and were asked to have a wish, what would it be? Mine would be that our love would last until you see an apple in an orange tree
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I finally got my past, present and future tenses correct today. I loved you. I love you. I will love you forever! :).
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'I Trust You' is a better compliment than 'I Love You' because you may not always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you trust.
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24hrs make a lovely day,
7 days make a lovely week,
52 weeks make a lovely year & knowing a
Person like u will make my life lovely.
Happy Valentines Day
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If Your asking if I Need U the answer is 4Ever
If Your asking if I'll Leave U the answer is Never
If Your asking what I value the Answer is U
if Your asking if I love U the answer is I do.
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God is wise when he did not put a price tag on you darling. If he did, I won’t be able to afford to have a boyfriend (girlfriend) as precious as you.

Propose SMS
If I reached for your hand , will u hold it ?
If I hold out my arms, will u hug me ?
If I go for your lips, will u kiss me ?
If I capture ur heart , will u love me ??
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As days go by, my feelings get stronger,
To be in ur arms, I can't wait any longer.
Look into my eyes & u'll see that it's true,
Day & Night my thought r of U..
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All I wanted was sum1 2 care 4 me
All I wanted was sum1 who'd b there 4 me
All I ever wanted was sum1 who'd b true
All I ever wanted was sum1 like U...
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Kiss SMS
Kiss is not like Nokia...Connecting People
Kiss is not like Nike..Just Do It.
Kiss is not like Pepsi..Yeh Dil Maange More
But Kiss is like Pan Parag..Ek Se Mera Kya Hoga
Happy Valentines Day
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If a kiss was a raindrop i'd send u showers.
If a hug was a second i'd send u hours.
If a smile was water i'd send u a sea.
If love was a person i'd send u me.....
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Love is blind
Be very kind
When I kiss you
Please don’t mind
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O my dear Valentine
Whats life ?
Life is love.
Whats love ?
Love is kissing.
Whats kissing ?
Come here and I show you.
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What is the kiss in view.......
Geometry:- "Kiss is the shortest distance between 2 Lips"
Economics:- "Kiss is that thing 4 which DEMAND is always higher than SUPPLY"
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Physics:- "Kiss is the process of charging up human bodies"
Computer:- "Like bodies are connected without any DATA CABLE"
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Kisses blown are kisses wasted.
kisses are not kisses unless they are tasted.
kisses spread germs and germs are hated.
but you can kiss me baby i am vaccinated

Valentine's Day Messages

Valentine's Day is a day to express your feelings and renew the bond of love you share with your Valentine.

Hi My sweet Heart,
I Miss U Very Much!
I need you in my life because I LOVE YOU.
I LOVE YOU forever.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.

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Valentine is near
Just wishing you were here
You will always be near
My heart will never be the same
Beneath my skin, my soul lies waiting for you
Everyday I think of you I feel blue
Never give up hope
Remembering the first kiss
All I ask is to be with you
And for you to be my Valentine
For I will always cherish your heart in mine.

Valentine's Day Fun Fact

Here is the most enjoyable and unbelievable collection of Valentine's Day Fun Facts. Share these fun facts with your friends to amaze them this Valentine Day.

About 1 billion Valentine's Day cards are exchanged in US each year. That's the largest seasonal card-sending occasion of the year, next to Christmas.
Women purchase 85% of all valentines.
In order of popularity, Valentine's Day cards are given to teachers, children, mothers, wives, sweethearts and pets.
Parents receive 1 out of every 5 valentines.
About 3% of pet owners will give Valentine's Day gifts to their pets.
Valentine's Day and Mother's Day are the biggest holidays for giving flowers.
Worldwide, over 50 million roses are given for Valentine's Day each year.
California produces 60 percent of American roses, but the vast number sold on Valentine's Day in the United States are imported, mostly from South America. Approximately 110 million roses, the majority red, will be sold and delivered within a three-day time period.
73% of people who buy flowers for Valentine's Day are men, while only 27 percent are women.
Men buy most of the millions of boxes of candy and bouquets of flowers given on Valentine's Day.
In the Middle Ages, young men and women drew names from a bowl to see who their valentines would be. They would wear these names on their sleeves for one week. To wear your heart on your sleeve now means that it is easy for other people to know how you are feeling.
The Italian city of Verona, where Shakespeare's lovers Romeo and Juliet lived, receives about 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet every Valentine's Day.
Richard Cadbury invented the first Valentines Day candy box in the late 1800s.
Alexander Graham Bell applied for his patent on the telephone, an "Improvement in Telegraphy", on Valentine's Day, 1876.
The oldest surviving love poem till date is written in a clay tablet from the times of the Sumerians, inventors of writing, around 3500 B.C
Amongst the earliest Valentine's Day gifts were candies. The most common were chocolates in heart shaped boxes.
In some countries, a young woman may receive a gift of clothing from a prospective suitor. If the gift is kept, then it means she has accepted his proposal of marriage
If an individual thinks of five or six names considered to be suitable marriage partners and twists the stem of an apple while the names are being recited, then it is believed the eventual spouse will be the one whose name was recited at the moment the stem broke.
In Medieval times, girls ate unusual foods on St Valentine's Day to make them dream of their future husband.

Valentine's Day Superstitions

It is said that the kind of bird a girl watches on Valentine's Day predicts her future husband. For instance:

Sparrow: a poor man
Owl: remain spinster
Bluebird: a happy man
Blackbird: a priest or clergyman
Crossbill: an argumentative man

If an apple is cut in half, the number of seeds found inside the fruit will indicate the number of children that individual will have.
To be awoken by a kiss on Valentine's Day is considered lucky.
On Valentine's Day, the first guy's name you read in the paper or hear on the TV or radio will be the name of the man you will marry.
If you see a squirrel on Valentine's Day, you will marry a cheapskate who will hoard all your money.
If you see a goldfinch on Valentine's Day, you will marry a millionaire.
If you see a robin on Valentine's Day, you will marry a crime fighter - maybe they mean Batman!
If you see a flock of doves on Valentine's Day, you will have a happy, peaceful marriage.
If you find a glove on the road on Valentine's Day, your future beloved will have the other missing glove.

The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women

2009-02-14T03:58:00.000-08:00

I am going to reveal to you the number #1 mistake men make when it comes to attracting and dating beautiful women.

What do you think is the reason why most guys out there just can't get a date, a number or a kiss from a woman?

It's because they treat every single woman like a princess and put them on a pedestal ... whereas they should really treat them like their little bratty sister. This is what gets women attracted and fall in love with you.

If you act like a clingy, needy nice-guy then no wonder women tell you that they just want to be friends with you.

When you see an attractive woman, what do you do to get her attention? Do you go up to her and pay her a compliment? Do you ask her if she wants a drink? Do you tell her how beautiful she is? Do you introduce yourself and ask what her name is?

Man, why do you make me bang my head on my keyboard? You won't get a woman to give you
her phone number like that! Now look, most guys think that to successfully attract a woman, you need to be nice to them, drive a sports car, have a load of cash in your wallet and work out every week just to look a bit like Arnold.

You couldn't be more wrong. It's all bullshit!

In fact, you may have just made the biggest mistake in your life when it comes to women and dating. Every guy on this planet has been brainwashed into the belief that women will want to be with you if you are nice to them, treat them like a princess and pay for drinks and dinner.

You couldn't be further from the truth. But it's not your fault. Blame TV, Hollywood and magazines. You have been conditioned to believe that this is what makes women get attracted to you.

Now listen, me and many of my friends who are true ladies-men aren't rich, good looking or handsome. We're just regular guys like you.

But we can get so many phone numbers from women one single day you wouldn't even believe me if I told you.

So what's our secret? How do we do it?

It's because we tease women, we accuse them of hitting on us, bust their balls and are cheeky when we talk to them. We are the complete opposite of what a clingy nice-guy
does. We don't offer them drinks, we don't pay compliments and we certainly don't invite them to a romantic candle light dinner.

And guess what?

They LOVE us for that. Women get attracted and want to be with men that are different from all the other guys they have dated in the past...and we give them precisely that.

So if you want to be able to do the same and literally get women to fight for YOUR attention, start treating them like your bratty little sister and say "HEY! Will you stop staring at my ass all the time? I'm not a sex-object you know?"

Once you truly GET IT what makes women attracted to men, you can write your own ticket in the dating world. Enjoy!!!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Saying I Love You

2009-02-10T02:05:00.000-08:00

I adore you.

I am infatuated with you.

I appreciate you.

I can't live without you.

I can't stop thinking about you when we're apart.

I cherish you.

I dream of you.

I live for our love.

I love being around you.

I need you by my side.

I need you.

I respect you.

I value you.

I want a lifetime with you.

I want you.

I worship you.

I yearn for you.

I'm a better person because of you.

I'm blessed to have you in my life.

I'm devoted to you.

I'm fond of you.

I'm lost without you.

I'm nothing without you.

I'm passionate about you.

I'm thankful for you.

I'm yours.

Me and you. Always.

My love is unconditional.

Our love is invaluable.

Take me, I'm yours.

The thought of you brings a smile to my face.

Ti tengu cara (to female) or Ti tengu caru (to male).

Together, forever.

We were meant to be together.

You are a blessing in disguise.

You are an angel from God.

You are like a candle burning bright.

You are my crush.

You are my dear.

You are my everything.

You are my one and only.

You are my reason for living.

You are my strength.

You are my sunshine.

You are my treasure.

You are my world.

You are precious.

You are the light of my life.

You are the reason I'm alive.

You bring happiness to rainy days.

You bring joy to my life.

You cast a spell on me that can't be broken.

You complete me.

You drive me wild.

You fill me with desire.

You fill my heart.

You give me wings to fly.

You had me from hello.

You hold the key to my heart.

You inspire me.

You intoxicate me.

You lift me up to touch the sky.

You light my flame.

You light up my life.

You make me hot.

You make my heart skip a beat.

You make my world a better place.

You mean the world to me.

You motivate me.

You rock my world.

You seduce me.

You set my heart on fire.

You simply amaze me.

You stole my heart.

You sweeten my sour days.

You turn my world upside down.

You turn the darkness into life.

You're a dream come true.

You're a gem.

You're a twinkle in my eye.

You're absolutely wonderful.

You're all I want.

You're as beautiful as a sunset.

You're beautiful.

You're charming.

You're enchanting.

You're heavenly.

You're my angel.

You're my prefect match .

You're one in a million.

You're priceless.

You're sexy.

You're the apple of my eye.

You're the best thing that ever happened to me.

You're the best.

You're the diamond in the rough.

You're the one for me.

You're the one I've always wished for.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

How to Get a girlfriend

2009-02-03T03:20:00.001-08:00

Ok look... now after a long time im going to tell u guys how to get a girlfriend in my way!

This is actually pretty simple if you guys know what exactly women are looking for in a guy. To be honest, I can tell you precisely *WHY* you haven'tfound a girlfriend yet.( even i dont have girlfriend *evil grin ) lolz....

See, you may have your eyes on that special woman you would LIKE to be with, but she just doesn't feel attracted to you. ( because u are *******........... forget about it)

She does NOT feel the same way towards youthan you do to her.Why???? hmmm thats why im here guys to help u all..... its happenBecause you didn't press a woman's emotional trigger buttons that will make her attracted to you!

You see, you need to give a woman what she needsto feel sexually attracted to you. She may thinkyou're a nice guy and a good friend, but that'sas far as it goes. She doesn't see you as apotential boyfriend or lover.

And that really sucks ... so we need tochange that.ok

So what are you doing wrong?

What is itthat makes women tell you that "you are anice guy, but not really for her?"

Well for once ... you are a god-damn wussbag!

Women DON'T reject men simply because the mancan't offer her things like money, a muscularbody, a fancy sports-car or good-looks.That's not the case ... even though mostpeople THINK it is.

Look, it's not because women think you are aweirdo, dress like a bum or are not "handsome"
or "masculine" enough.

It's not because you think all those stunningwomen are out of your league.

There is something else.

You haven't found a girlfriend yet becausewomen don't like men who act like wimps and clingy
nice-guys!

So READ MY LIPS: In a woman's eyes ... you areprobably a wimp!

See, you have BEEN yourself all your life...and has it worked? Not really. But you don'twant to become a different person either andI respect that. The good thing is, you won'thave to change at all ... you just need to IMPROVE!

I need to show you what really works with women,and give you the necessary knowledge and some ofmy killer dating tips that actually work in thereal world.

Not just any kind of dating tips...I am goingto show you how ANYBODY, regardless of how rich,tall or handsome you are can meet and date thekind of women you've always wanted!

So why don't you have a girlfriend yet?

Because nobody has ever told you what todo to successfully attract women. How could
you? Most men aren't born with the gift ofmaking women laugh, giggle and sweeping themoff their feet.right.

It is an art, and if you've never reallyunderstood why women pick certain men overothers, you have some learning to do.

So here's what I want you to do:

STOP being a wuss!

- Don't kiss a woman's ass.

- Don't buy them drinks.

- Don't pay them any compliments.

- Don't invite them to dinner or to the movies.

- Don't bring flowers, chocolate, a cuddly-toy
or ANYTHING at all!

It only shows a woman that you are a clingy,needy nice-guy who wants to BUY a woman's affection....and attraction cannot be bought, EVER!

If you do, she will either walk all over you orjust tell you that you are a nice guy, but "let'srather be friends!". And here's another thing.The more you want sex from her, a long-termrelationship or even just a kiss ... the lessyou will get it.

Women don't like what they can have right away.If you are too pushy, needy and "easy-to-get",you are not a challenge for any woman andtherefore BORING!

The key is to be interesting!

So STOP what you are doing RIGHT NOW...

and get it right!

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Why 'Nice Guys' NEVER Get The Girl

2009-01-27T20:59:00.000-08:00

did You ever noticed something really 'STRANGE' about women?

1) The most attractive and interesting women ALWAYS seem
to be attracted to men who don't treat them very well?

2) That the "nicer" you are to a woman the more she will act
like "just a FRIEND" to you? Sometimes they even despise
you for that.seriously ! most gurls do that....

What's going on here? Didn't your mommy say to you years
ago that you should be "NICE" to all girls? especially my mom. oh god!

I tell you exactly whats going on bro:

Women AREN'T usually romantically attracted to "nice"
guys, or just to be straight forward wussies. Women are
attracted to MEN who are funny, confident, and mysterious.thats why no one know my secret ...haha

Good looks certainly don't hurt like me, but if you ain't 6'2" tall ( im more than that ),
handsome ( of course )and buff, then you guys , have to make use
of your personality ...

But really, being "nice" ISN'T going to do cut it with women

"How come all the women they have dated, married, and

beaten up are ALSO RICH AND FAMOUS?"

These are supermodels and playmates of the year and such.
These women can date whoever they want. Tommy Lee was even
MARRIED to both Heather Locklear AND Pamela Anderson.

They didn't need Tommy Lee for his bank account or his fame
man ... they are obviously dating these guys for SOME OTHER
REASON!

You following me?

So what's the big deal here? And more importantly,
how can you use this information to be more successful
with women and dating?

You have to understand the following:

1) Women make decisions very, very quickly about
whether a man is going to be "just a friend" or if
he is suitable for a relationship. But once her decision
is made, it will stay that way!

2) These decisions are made "subconsciously",
meaning that women make all of them quickly and and
automatically! They aren't even aware of it, they just DO it
... and that's within minutes.

3) But, If you know how, you can make her feel 'attracted'
to you instead of her having 'friends' feelings towards you.

4) I know you don't wanna be her friend, you want her to be
your girlfriend and have sex with her right? The first way to do
that is to stop acting "nice" and start acting, well... something
else, and I DON'T mean "not nice". The whole idea is making
it FUN and her life boring without you.

So what DOES attract women? And how do you do it exactly?

For starters, there are certain qualities you have to adopt:
Be funny & witty, be confident & ballsy and be mysterious.

Before I talk about each, I first have to remind you that WOMEN
DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE. Remember that.

Remember when you had your first driving lesson? It made
perfect sense when you started out ... turn the wheel left
and go left, turn it right and go right.

But do you remember when you had to learn how to back up and
how to do a reverse parking? Man, this was a whole thing.
Everything that used to work now works in a DIFFERENT way.

It does take little time to get the hang of it, but once you
DO, then you can do it ANYTIME you want.

Now, women are VERY similar. At first it might be confusing.
You have to try things that don't seem to make sense but
again once you get the hang of it and actually see what works,
you can do it anytime ...

Just like trying to reverse park that car into
that darn small spot!

As much as many women would hate to admit it,
there's something very ATTRACTIVE about a man who
is just a little more confident than he should be.

If you are able to tweak this into being 'cheeky', then my
friend you have the ultimate trait to play with those girls you
always wanted!

Here are a few ways to use this idea:

1) When you meet a girl the first time, tease her about
something. Here's an example, say: "Sooo tell me ...
what's up with girls and the color pink? ... Oh I know,
chocolate-discounts at the mall, ha ... you are such a girl"
or "So ... when are we getting married?" or "Cool, you
gonna buy me a drink then?".

If you tease a woman, it shows that you're NOT INTIMIDATED
by her, that you have a fun sense of humor. And they can't
help but to LOVE it.

KEY: Make sure you say something FUNNY. If you
don't know how to be funny, get a book on it. The test:
If she's not laughing, then it wasn't funny!

2) Be COOL. Look, don't act like you are on your first date.
Women certainly don't want to be around a chump who acts like
he's on a date with Jessica Simpson. Treat her like your bratty
little sister and play with her.

You see, attractive women are approached and hit on
all the time so you HAVE to be different here. This "just
a little too confident" attitude is very attractive to women...
ESPECIALLY when it's combined with humor.

3) DON'T answer her a direct answer. Play around a bit.
If she asks you questions such as "What do you do" or "Tell me
something about yourself", then don't answer with something
like "Oh yeah ... I'm a systems analyst" or "I'm the department
manager of such and such".

This just ISN'T interesting to women!

Answer with funny answers, and don't give her what she wants.
For instance, say "Yeah, I work in this escort agency where I
have to meet these rich women and give them a lift home in their
own car because they had too much to drink, Sexy job eh?."

Do you get it? Keep it up and KEEP her laughing.

It's important to remember that I'm not telling
you to be mean, or to be a jerk to women. I'm
telling you to START being confident, funny, and
mysterious.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Number Numerology

2009-01-27T02:10:00.000-08:00

If you were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month you are number 1.

If you were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then you are number 2.

If you were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then you are number 3.

If you were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then you are number 4.

If you were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then you are number 5.

If you were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month then you are number 6.

If you were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month then you are number 7.

If you were born on the 8th, 17th, 26th of any month then you are number 8.

If you were born on the 9th, 18th, 27th of any month then you are number 9.

Number 1

You are smart, frank, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest, jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, friendly, and authoritative. Famous Person always want to be and regarded as First on position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people! You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get married when you mature! You are likely to have problems with peopl e who have opposite views and you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future. If you are guy, you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and talented in numerous issues!! But make sure in your life, you will always have some people who will work hard to support. Because of your smart behavior, you will be hated by some people too. Your family life is very cool; you will have a very nice partner & wonderful children. You are Pioneer, independent & Original.

Your best match is 4, 6, 8; good matches are 3, 5, 7.

Number 2

No matter what, you will be loved by every one because your ruler is the Moon and every one loves the Moon,huh!! Well, you are a person who daydream a lot. You have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life. You are very much unpredictable means you do change according to time and circumstances. Selfish and have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, and verbal communication. Your attitudes are like the Moon comes to Gloom and fade away so everybody can expect changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who is peace loving or you can be a Hitler who wants to destroy the mankind and peace. I mean in the community and your own home. If you really have a deep thought about your own, believe in God, you can feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your words are a kind of would be happening. True! You can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, or any artistic business
people! You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get marry. If you are a girl, you will be a responsible woman in the whole family. If you are a man, you will involve in fights and arguments in the family or vice-versa. You are gentle, intuitive with a broad vision, a power behind the scenes, well balanced people!!!

Your best match is 2, 5, and 9 no other people can put up with you!!!

Number 3

You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious, loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have
lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything. You have strong word power, pretty happy face,so wherever you go, you always have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth you always wanted to work hard in order to achieve something. You will not get anything without hard work! When you reach a Man/Woman age! , you want other younger listen to you because you want younger people to respect older people. You do set so many examples to others. Generally you re not a cool person. It's not easy dealing with you! But once you like someone's attitude, then here you go. It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others. Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but they won't be long. You will always have brilliant kids!!! You love money a bit too much so temptation will. Push you to endless trying. If you are a guy, you will be looking after your family and helping friends, and will spend a life time just being generous and (except 21st born Men) you will be such an example of how to be in the culture & Life!!! If you are girl, then it's your good character and hardworking attitude you always follow. You are a Freedom Lover, Creative Ambition focused who brings Beauty, Hope & Joy to this world!!!

Your best match are 6, 9; Good matches are 1, 3, 5.

Number 4

You are very stubborn and very hard working. You have rough word power which might put lots of people away from you. You may cause nuisance to others if you are a man. You often understand others well and their problems. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are guy you spend most of the time after girl friends. You will have fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don't know what to do, so be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!! Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart and beware of your relations too. You are practical, patient, persistent, a bit old-fashioned.

You best matches are 1, 8; Good matches are 5, 6, 7.

Number 5

You are very popular within the community. You can get things done by just chatting to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind. You are someone who acts on impulse. You will be famous if you open up a business, get involve in share dealings, music etc. Very popular with sense of humor, you are the one your friends and families will always ask for help and you are the one actually get money on credit and help your friends!! You will have more than 1 relationship, but when you get settle down you will be a bit selfish. Anyway, because your other half will have a pretty good amount of control in you. Be careful you tend to go for other relationships/contacts even you are married at times because of your popularity. You are someone who gets along with anyone because the number 5 is the middle number. You like changes and freedom. You are an Explorer with Magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it's your Best Teacher!!!

Your best matches are 1, 2, 9; Good matches are 6, 8.

Number 6

You are born to enjoy. You don't care about others, you always want to enjoy your life time. You are a person. You will be very good in either education or in business management! You are talented, kind (but only with people who you think are nice), beautiful girls and guys. Popular and more than lucky with anything in their Lives. All the goodness does comes to you. The mind and body is just made perfect. If you are a number 6 man, you will experience looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get marry!!! If you are girl, most of them will get marry/engage early. You are caring towards your family and friends. You are a person of Compassion, Comfort & Fairness, Good judgment, and after all you can heal this world to make peace forever because you have great power of caring.

Your best matches are 1, 6, 9. Good matches are 4, 5.

Number 7

You have got the attraction to anyone out there. You are realistic, confident, happy, a talented individual in your Education, Music, Arts, Singing, and most importantly Acting. You have real problems with bad temper!! If you are girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above, you give up things for your parents, I mean you value your family status a lot. You will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age! If you are a guy, you are popular with Girl s. You are a very talented too! Most of the number 7s faces lots of problems with their marriage life. Only a very few are happy!! It's probably the Lord give you all sort of humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life, so you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don't, then you might end-up single!!! You are wonderful, Friendly, Artistic, Happy person. You are born to contribute lot to this world!!!

Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1, 4.

Number 8

You are a very strong personality, there's no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing!!! You are more likely to suffer from the early age poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your parents and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life. The problems will not allow you to tudy further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way!!! You are the one will fight for justice and may die in the war too!!! You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time, live life lonely and always prepared to help. Well, once you get marry (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit, then you become safe. Beware of un-expected problems from the terror, government, poisonous animals & accidents. You are someone with discipline, persistence, courage which will t ake you to the Success! You ar e a Great part of a team, family and a fighter!!!

Your Best matches are 1, 4, 8. Good match is 5.

Number 9

Hey, you guys are the un-compatible people in the world, you are so strong, physically and mentally. You often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there, normally you suffer in the early age from family's problems and generally you will have fighting life, but when you achieve what you have done, it's always a big-task!! You are so much respected in the community. You are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off. You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents, and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time, but when you grow, you become calm and macho type!!! Tell you what, Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs because people always trust you! Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children. Your qualities are humanitarian, patient, quick witted & compassionate, You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice! You are totally a Role Model to everybody in the world for a Great Inspiration!!!

Your best matches are 3, 5, 6, 9; Good match is 2.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Dating Rules

2009-01-24T04:59:00.000-08:00

The problem with the dating game is that there are dating rules to follow and most of them we forget as we grow older. You see, when we are young our fellow friends at school and college reinforce the way things should be done when dealing with potential dates. Yes you should wear that, no you never say that, yes you should do this, but no you never do that. Then we grow up. For a time we are completely aware of the rules of dating and we practice those rules every time we meet someone. But then we meet someone perhaps, fall in love and have a relationship. Little by little the things we learned over our formative years when dealing with the fairer sex are lost and are in fact unlearned.

Then one day we are unwillingly thrust back onto the dating scene only to find that we start behaving like 12 year olds. We call our dates too often, we are constantly available, we wear the wrong clothes, laugh at bad jokes like a fool, date the wrong people and generally get it all badly wrong. Then we get hurt or taken for a ride. Of course there will be some of you reading this that are the very epitome of dating sophistication, but the truth is, when you lose your heart you also lose your head . If you are going to date well then give these key do's and don'ts of dating some serious consideration. Dating rules are very important if you want to win and keep your perfect match.

Dating Rules - Do's

1. Do try to look your best and be punctual on dates

2. Do have fun when dating. I know the subject of Mr. or Miss Right is serious but dating is fun too so keep it that way.

3. Do flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to go to a lot of effort on a date (hopefully) so being told that you are looking good is a nice thing to hear.

4. Be interested and interesting. As the Pet Shop Boys once said, I was never bored because I was never being boring" or something similar. You get my drift.

5. Do tell someone if you are not interested in dating them again. Being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious act (yes I mean it that strongly). If you don't want to see someone again then let them know that in the nicest possible way you can.

6. Do date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Approval by your peers doesn't prove a thing.

7. Do stay positive even when dates don't end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find a prince. Along the way you will meet some nice people too and make some good contacts possibly.

8. Dating is a creative diversion, it requires concentration and energy so when you are dating keep some plans in the forefront of your mind and allow dating to take you to places you always wanted to visit within your own city.

9. Do make dating happen for yourself. People will not come and ring your bell from nowhere. Dating requires positive action so go out there and meet people, as many people as you can. Practice your chat and flirting on shop workers, bar attendants, anywhere and everywhere. Being nice to people is very sexy and great fun.

10. Do surround yourself with positive like minded people who are also dating. Think about the girls from Sex and the City and how they assist each other in dating and matters of romance. Negative friends who don't condone the dating scene or don't understand it will only help lower your own expectations and make you feel negative.

Dating Rules - Don'ts

1. Never call someone more than once a day unless they reply. Desperation and instability are huge turn offs.

2. Don't date the people who you usually find dump you. You may be generally attracted to bastards but that will not get you anywhere except hurt.

3. For men, never ever be late for a date, even if you have a very good reason. Women should never be kept waiting and should never have to seat themselves - ever.

4. Never tell lies to your date or pretend anything about your life that isn't true. If this is your perfect match for God's sake do not allow it to be ruined by some silly lie told early on.

5. Never be too available. Being available every night of the week and at the end of every whimsical phone call or possible rendezvous means you are making yourself uninteresting and a possible doormat. Be busy, be unavailable generally and be interesting.

6. Don't give away too much about yourself at the start. People love enigma and mystery. Revealing to your new date your inner most secrets on date number two will quickly ruin everything. A small bit at a time people.

7. Never check other people out when you are with your date. You may think you are subtle , your date will be heading for the door. Have the courtesy of concentrating solely on your date when you are with them.

8. Don't be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.

9. Don't ignore your personal safety when dating. Have a cellular phone and keep it charged, tell your friends where you are going and be safe. Date at first in well known public places and never ever be pushed into anything you are not happy with.

10. Don't give out personal information like home phone numbers and addresses on a first date. Keep them until you are sure of your date and the future possibilities.

11. Don't have sex on a first date if you ever want to see your new date again. If you like them and are interested in them, sex on a first date will usually ruin everything. Its too much too soon and is not the way of romance. Believe me I am ( Alagarajan ) 100% certain on this.haha

12. Never date a married person. They will not leave their husbands or wives for you (except exceptionally rarely). Married dating is the sure fire way to misery, lies, deceit, lack of self respect and loss of romance. If you are married, separate first. If you are single, don't be a shoulder to cry on, you deserve far better.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Love's Moments

2009-01-24T03:55:00.000-08:00

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! and seriously i do that....

When the door of happiness closes, another opens,thats natural but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Thats Life.....

-- ALAGARAJAN --

I Love You in 100 Language

2009-01-22T00:08:00.000-08:00

English - I love you
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumen
Bambara - M'bi fe
Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan - T'estimo
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Frisian - Ik hâld fan dy
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe (Thanks Craig)
Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Aishiteru
Korean - Sarang Heyo
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe

-- ALAGARAJAN --

7 wonders love Secrets

2009-01-21T00:56:00.000-08:00

Have you ever felt frustrated trying to get the one you want to want you back? Have you ever felt like the cause was hopeless and there's just nothing you can do to win their heart?

Such frustrations are common. All human beings are subject to them. While there is no way to completely avoid them, there is a way to overcome them and find success. The way requires a basic understanding of those principles that motivate the human heart, followed by a patient application of those principles.

If you will systematically apply those principles in a well thought out strategy, you will ultimately reap the rewards of your efforts.

Applying the principles is up to you, but today I wanted to share with you a few truths relating to love and romance:

"In Love" is a form of dependency. Therefore, if you want someone to be in love with you, you will have to make up your mind to meet their emotional needs so that they can grow dependent upon you. This includes hundreds of hours of listening to them while they talk while you, for the most part, are just attentively silent.

People are attracted to independence and repulsed by those who seem to cling. Therefore, to avoid scaring off a potential love you must throw in a lot of apparent aloofness while trying to win them. If you think this may confuse the one you want about your real intentions, you're right. Sorry, but that's just the way it needs to be in the early stages of romance.

People want what they can't have. Therefore, you have to hold back form giving yourself completely to the one you want at the first indications they're starting to become attracted to you. Instead of giving the dog the whole steak at once, feed it to him/her one bite at a time, over an extended period of time.

I'm speaking here of deeply shared feelings and your valuable time. Be careful with how much time and feeling you give to the one you want. As to sexual involvement, that should be withheld until after the marriage vows, or you'll reduce their incentive to get there. Why buy the cow when the milk is free?

People's conscious decisions are subconsciously motivated. Therefore, don't be too concerned by what the one you want says they think they want, or acts like they think they want. You should act on principle and eventually they'll realize that what they really want is you.

People are most drawn to a person with a positive and confident self-image. Therefore, resist the temptation to spill your feelings of self-doubt. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than somebody who insists on bursting your bubble and destroying the image they want to have of you.

People's attitudes are really a reflection of what you think of them. Therefore, while not wearing your heart on your sleeve, you must still prove though your actions that your friendship to them is a committed one. This takes time.

The longer a relationship grows, the stronger it becomes. Therefore, if you mess up along the way, take comfort in the fact that tomorrow is another day, and the fact that you prove you have lasted and learned from yesterday's hardships, will in itself increase their feelings of commitment to you in the long run.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

50 Sexy Turn Ons

2009-01-19T00:56:00.000-08:00

Wow ! i found a wonderful website as i surfing ... let me share a bite of the content.Want a way to completely turn on your partner? Try one of these 50 ways submitted by users like you! in this website.U guys also can send it ....

1. She will appear around the house semi-naked, like getting dinner and only wear an apron or wear dungarees, but no shirt or bra. -Hamish Muir

2. During lovemaking it turns me on when my girl looks me in the eye and tells me she loves me. -Miss Liz

3. He lightly runs his hands up and down my back, then gently kisses up my spine. -Megan

4. Kisses me softly on my breasts and on my inner thighs! It's just so wonderful! -Diane Elmore

5. While kissing me, he gently bites my bottom lip ~Ohhhh Yeah! -B.

6. He calls me at work in the middle of the day, unexpectedly, says "I Love You" and hangs up the phone. I absolutely enjoy this, it gets me every time and I can't wait to get home and hold him in my arms. -Joanna

7. When he whispers to me, or when he cuddles or touches me without me doing it first. -Erin

8. He uses his sensual lips and puts them on every spot of my body. -Shelly

9. Sucking on my toes! -Christina

10. He will suck my fingertips-one by one as we're watching a movie. We usually don't make it through the movie!!!! -Holly

11. He will walk up behind me and surprise me by whispering softly in my ear how much he loves me, and then he will gently kiss my neck. -Aimee

12. When she tells me that she wants to make love with me. -Steve Fremgen

13. There is definitely one spot on my neck that makes me absolutely crazy. It is the height of sensuality and ecstasy. It creates want, need, and desire. -Alicia

14. One of my turn-ons is when my boyfriend runs one finger down the back of my neck. Talk about chills. Oo!!! =) -Tasia

15. The way he comes up behind me and pulls me into him in a very close embrace. I can feel his whole body pressing against me, and feel his breath on the nape of my neck and his lips. Mmmmm that's always enough to send me over the edge. -Leigh

16. With his hands he goes down on either side of my spine and sends chills down to my toenails. It drives me crazy. -Kathy

17. Passionate kiss on the lips. -Jay Trinidad

18. When we are at a party, or somewhere where there are a lot of people, and he whispers sexy nothings into my ear! -Nicole

19. Biting on my ear gently and breathing heavily with moaning sounds. -Popeye

20. When we are kissing, which is a lot! He nibbles my ears and barely breaths my name in my ear as if we were having sex. -Trace'

21. When I am naked and he kisses me down my back, bottom, and the backs of my legs. -Tracy

22. He gives me a full body massage and then kisses all over my body. -Anonymous

23. When he presses me against the wall and looks into my eyes, and then gently holds the back of my neck and kisses me. -Molly

24. The one thing my partner does that really turns me on would have to be how he whispers dirty things in my ear when we are having foreplay. -Jennifer

25. Kissing the insides of my knees. -Christi

26. Nibbles - everywhere!!! -Debby

27. All my boyfriend has to do is kiss me. My boyfriend always has his eyes closed when we kiss, but occasionally we keep our eyes open and stare into each other's eyes while we're kissing. We've been together for almost four years and he can still get me ready to go by just kissing me. I think that's more romantic than anything I can think of. -Michele

28. It has to be the soft teasing kisses. It makes me sigh just thinking of them. -Mary

29. My boyfriend will walk up to me at the strangest times and tell me what he would like to do to me if we were alone. He loves to tell me these thing in places like church! -Marissa

30. The one thing that always gets me going is when he bites me on the back of the neck, not as soft as a little nibble but hard enough to leave a mark. I don't know what it is about that, but it just gets my juices flowing. -Charma Lay

31. A wonderful kiss that leaves me breathless and wanting more, much more! -Dorothy

32. His gentle touches when we are making love. -Bonie

33. The thing that make me wild is when my honey starts at my lips and kisses his way to my tummy! I love it when he kisses my tummy so soft and sensually. He licks an area around my belly button then blows on it, it gives me goose bumps all through my body. I LOVE IT! -Lindsay

34. He turns me on when he pays every single bit of his attention to me and looks me in the eyes. I know he really does love me, it's a meeting of our souls. -Beth

35. When he looks at me with desire in his eyes. His pupils enlarge so much I could drown in them and his face gets so intense like he can barely hold back from jumping on me and making love to me right there. -D K's Dryad

36. Silk robe and boxers. -Angel

37. I love it when she brushes her breasts over my body... that drives me wild. -Glenn

38. When she watches me lovingly while I watch TV. -Chuck

39. He puts his arm around my back and holds my face while he kisses me. -Vyunda

40. What really turns me on is when my boyfriend runs his tongue across my back and kisses my back to wake me up in the morning. -Maddy

41. How as he is touching me, hugging me, kissing me, making love to me - he is totally into it. He's not doing it JUST to make me happy, he's doing it because he really enjoys my body and being with me. What a turn-on!!! -Doryntony

42. When she removes her hair band, she leans back her head slightly and shakes her hair out so it is straight. All I can say is wow. It is a great turn on because it looks so quintessentially feminine, and she often does it in places and situations where I cannot react to it (public places, in company, etc.). That must be one of the reasons it such a turn on, I have to wait to react. -Gabriel K.

43. Teasing, in any way shape or form. -Cole

44. He always rubs my feet after I get out of the bath and that is the most intimate thing you could do for your lover. For us it always leads to really great sex! -Butterfly

45. She drives me crazy by gently kissing and blowing on my back. It sends chills up and down my spine. -L

46. Surprise me by not wearing underwear when we go out. Being creative in finding ways to let me know adds to the enjoyment. -Nick

47. My husbands' sheer enjoyment of our intimacy always makes me happy, comfortable and turns me on! The fact that he is always "up" (pun intended!) for lovemaking and is so comfortable in expressing his pleasure is a driving force in our sexual relationship. -Liss

48. My man looks into my eyes and says the most incredible things to me while lovemaking. It's like he can get into my mind and bring me to new heights using only his words and his eyes -P.J.

49. Oh My Gosh! I have to say that for me, the one thing that turns me on the most is when he talks to me. Says erotic things, like, lay back and relax honey, or you like that don't you baby. I find that it makes me get into the mood all the more, and the passion heightens as well. -Jen

50. Just being around her. I love to watch her dress. -Jack

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Romantic Ways To Say I Love You...

2009-01-17T03:04:00.000-08:00

Those meaningful expressions of love are often the best ways to say 'I love you'. Simple, everyday, seemingly unimportant ways go a long way in enriching your relationship and making it last forever. All it takes is a little creativity, and a genuine need to reach out to your loved one. Follow your heart, make those little gestures, and see how your love life get recharged with a new life... And if you still need a bit of prodding, here are some hints...

1) Make sure you say 'I love you' at least once each day to your spouse. Listening to you saying those words again and again is all the emotional reassurance that your partner needs to keep that spark alive.

2) Give your mate an unexpected hug, a surprisingly romantic kiss, or a teasing tickle often. These are all ways of physically reinforcing those three important words.

3) Be spontaneous and surprising with unexpected notes, winking your spouse away for an unexpected weekend alone, star-gazing together, taking a walk in the rain with one another...

4) Share memories by looking at old photographs and talking about memories you share together.

5) Schedule a day to just be leisurely together. Away from kids and the rest of the family members, away from everyday tensions and work. Great for bonding.

6) Listen. First to each other. Pay attention when your partner says something. And next, listen together... could be Beethoven or even the news... the important thing is to share your likes and dislikes.

7) Share why you love your spouse. Nothing boosts your partner's morale faster than this. No wonder it works every time.

8) Give the gift of your time by performing trivial chores for your spouse, such as folding clothes, running an errand, washing the car, etc.

9) Don't forget anniversaries and birthdays. Never. Nothing brings about the crumbling of an affair faster than this.

10) Smile. Often. At each other, for no reason at all, together at something else...

11) Blow your partner a kiss from across the room - this is the most romantic gesture that the French ever discovered.

12) Dance with your spouse in your own living room. Plan a surprise, if you can. the minute your partner walks into the room, the music goes on. So do the lights, and you waltz into his or her arms. There is something very romantic about waltzing in your own house.

13) Hold hands. Yet another simple action, but great for sustaining a relationship.

14) Plan and cook a meal together. And eat it over candlelight.

15) Send love notes to each other... keeps you on his or her mind even when out of sight. These days, SMSes have taken over, and people have forgotten how to write those cute little handwritten notes to each other. But the fact is, nothing beats them when it comes to the sheer romanticism, and of course, communication.

1. Where to leave those love notes...

2. On an egg in the refrigerator

3. Inside a book your spouse is reading

4. On the refrigerator door

5. On your mate's pillow

6. In one of your spouse's shoes

7. On the computer or television

8. On the dashboard of your spouse's car

9. Inside your partner's favourite glass

10. In one of your partner's drawers

11. Tucked inside a CD or DVD plastic sleeve

12. On the bathroom mirror

13. Via email or cell phone message

14. Inside one of the coat pockets

15. Inside your spouse's lunch box

16. Inside your mate's favourite bag of chips or a package of cookies

17. etc........

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Flirting Tips For Dating Success

2009-01-14T02:52:00.000-08:00

Flirting Tips For Dating Success

Flirting is not rocket science. It is simply a common sense method of letting people know you’re available without being tacky or obnoxious. AND… if done properly, it is your best chance at snagging your future partner! So, get ready to demystify the art of flirting with these five fabulous flirting tips. Practice your new moves on the object of your desire this weekend…

#1: Be Sincere
If you’re going to flirt, you need to be real about it. Anyone can spot a fake a mile away. If you’re feeling insecure about your flirting skills, don’t start with your secret crush since the 10th grade. Begin in a situation you are most comfortable with. If you’re going to pay compliments to someone, be sincere about them. Really mean what you are saying and your results will be well worth the effort.

#2: Smile
A smile is the simplest form of flattery. It shows that you are genuinely interested in the other person, and for that one single moment they are the only thing on your mind. Never underestimate the power of a smile.

#3: Touch
Touch is an obvious sign of interest. Used correctly it can be a subtle way of getting a person’s undivided attention. Rest a hand on their arm or on their knee when you are talking. Engage in activities that promote touch, such as dancing. Just be careful not to appear too flirtatious. The last thing you want to do is send the wrong signals.

#4: Hold Eye Contact
How do you make the object of your affection weak in the knees? Hold that meaningful gaze for just a few seconds longer than normal. Show them you’re not one to turn away from something great!

#5: Be Interested In Them
Want to know if they are worthy of your undivided attention? Find out more by asking them open-ended questions about themselves. Show off your flirting skills by showing them you are actually listening to what they are saying.

Bonus Tip:
Don’t forget to show your appreciation for the person spending time with you. Always thank the person you are with, and let them know if you had a good time with them. A little politeness goes a long way to making you the next catch of the day.

Write Back!
What are your best flirting tips? Have you used a flirting tip above with or without success? Let me know! Or, share your BEST ways for flirting! ya friends

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Funny Pick Up Lines

2009-01-12T01:38:00.000-08:00

Funny Pick Up Lines

hmm... i think u guys know how to start in writing a letter.ok, now i Think you've heard the worst or funniest pick up line ever? Then you'll love these!

1. Is your dad a thief or something? Because someone stole the stars and put them into your eyes!

2. I may not be Fred Flintstone, but I can sure make your bed rock!

3. Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

4. I lost my number, can I have yours?

5. Is your father a baker? Because those sure are some nice buns!

6. Call the police!! It has to be illegal to look that fine!

7. Is your father a terrorist? Because you're the bomb!

8. You: Excuse me can I borrow a quarter, it is an emergency?
Other: Yea sure, what's wrong?
You: My mom told me to give her a call the first time I fell in love.

9. If you were a Sprite, I'd obey my thirst!

10. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk past you again?

11. You: You look like my second wife!
Other: How many times have you been married?
You: Once!

12. If I told you you had a gorgeous body, would you hold it against me?"

13. If I followed you home, would you keep me?

14. Damn, I'm glad I'm not blind!

15. Go over to the person with a sugar packet and say, "Excuse me, I think you dropped your name tag."

16. Are you an over due book? Because you've got FINE written all over you!

17. If you were a booger, I'd pick you.

18. Baby you must be tired because you've been running through my mind all night!

19. The body is made up of 90% water and I'm thirsty.

20. Do you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants.

21. I was once told that our souls had met, now only our hearts had to be introduced.

22. Is your name Gillette? Because you're the best a man can get!

23. I think I need to call heaven because they've lost one of their angels.

24. You dropped your smile; can I pick it up for you?

25. Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.

26. If someone is wearing a shirt with writing on it, go up to them and ask them, "Can I read your shirt in brail?"

27. Smile if you want to sleep with me!

28. You know what would look great on you? Me.

29. You must be the reason for global warming because you're hot.

30. Am I cute enough yet? Or do you need more to drink?

31. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

32. Are you sure that we haven't met somewhere in a past life?

33. I wish I were a tear so I could start in your eyes, live on your face, and die on your lips.

34. I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.

35. Can I buy you a drink - or would you just prefer the five bucks?

36. You: What are you doing around Easter??
Other: WHY?
You: I might want to hop around.

37. Can I have directions to your heart?

38. Excuse me, but I'm new in town, can I have directions to your place?

39. When God made you he had to have broken the mold because I have never seen anything as beautiful as you.

40. I've heard sex is a killer, wanna die happy?

41. My name isn't Elmo, but you can tickle me anytime you want to!

42. Excuse me, are your initials M & M? Cause you look so good I bet you'd melt in my mouth.

43. "I've lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me?"

44. If beauty were a drop of milk, you would be a cow.

45. If your left leg is Thanksgiving and your right leg is Christmas, what do you say about me spending some time between the holidays?

46. I may not be the best looking guy around here, but I'm the only one talking to you.

47. I'm Milk; I'll do your body good!!

48. Can I have a band-aid? I scraped my knees when I fell for you.

49. Hey, your lips look a little wrinkled! Would you like me to press them for you?

50. You should get to know my name now, because you'll be screaming it all night!!

51. You: "Everytime you walk into the room, you drop something."
Other: "Oh yeah? What's that?"
You: "My jaw."

52. Your parents must be retarded because you're soooo special.

53. Lick your finger and put it on her blouse and say, "We should get you out of those wet clothes."

54. You're like lice; I can't get you out of my head.

55. If I were Peter Pan, you would be my happy thought.

56. Man: Do you prefer strawberries or blueberries?
Woman: Why?
Man: So I know what kind of pancakes to make you in the morning.

57. If you don't want to regret this in the morning, we'll sleep 'till noon!

58. If you were a hamburger at McDonald's, you'd be a McGorgeous.

59. You might not be the best looking girl here, but beauty is only a light switch away.

60. The fact that I am missing my teeth just means there is more room for your tongue.

ok. thats it. u can use those line but they will think u are funny guy coz it is funny pickup line what.

-- ALAGARAJAN --

Writing a letter may seem like an ancient ritual

2009-01-12T01:15:00.000-08:00

In the age of e-mail and contact forms, writing a letter may seem like an ancient ritual that is practiced only by those of earlier generations, but there are many rewards to sitting down and expressing yourself on paper. As i early mentioned how to write a love letter now i going to share the sequence to write a letter...

1. The opening should be great . for example : "Hello (name)," or "Hey (name),"

2. Begin with "How are you?" . etc

3. Keep your each paragraph engaging.

4. In a closing always use "Love always" , "Sincerely", etc

To : Unknown

I just love you because I do. I can't change it. Its not my choice. I wish I didn't, but that's how love is. I can't say a word about you. I have to forget about you. I wish you didn't make it so difficult for both. There are things I wish I could tell you. There are many things I need tell you, but I can't find the way. I can't find you. Your way of looking life is different from mine. I can't change it. Its not my choice. I wish I didn't love you. I can't forget about you. I just wish it could all work out like it once happened.

Your Love ,

Alagarajan

How to Write a Sweet Love Letter

2009-01-11T04:17:00.001-08:00

We attend to feel good when we make the people we love feel happy. basically, why we write love letter ? he or she does that makes you happy and wants you to describe those things in your own words.

First step : Feel the same way you felt the very first time you met your love.

second step : talk about the last encounter you two had, or what you'd like to do next time you meet.

third step : Describe your experiences using your own words

forth step : Write your own, original words ( You don't have to be Shakespeare to write the perfect love letter. )

fifth step : There's no rule that says you have to use poetry in a love letter

sixth step : Once your letter is complete, read it over carefully and check for errors. This letter will be read over and over. You don't want a mistake spoiling the mood.

seventh step : Once the letter is complete, drop it in the mail and wait for a great response. If you're lucky, you just might get a love letter yourself.

As u all known im not so good in writing love letter , coz im more prepare to say directly to face to face. its depends on a person how they wanna express their love ... here i write one of my love letter and u guys have to love it coz i took 2 month to write it using longman dictionary ...haha , so fun writing a love letter....

( was created using photoshop cs3 )

To : Unknown

It is very important for me to express to you how much you really mean to me. I wish I could do this in person while holding you in my arms and gazing into your eyes. But since we are physically separated by miles of emptiness, this expression must come in the form of letters such as this. Dear, I know it is difficult for you, as it is for me, to be separated for so long. Life seems to be full of trials of this type which test our inner strength, and more importantly, our devotion and love for one another. After all, it is said that " true love " is boundless and immeasurable and overcomes all forms of adversity. In truth, if it is genuine, it will grow stronger with each assault upon its existence. Dear, our love has been assaulted many times, and I am convinced that it is true because the longer I am away from you, the greater is my yearning to be with you again. You are my Charming Prince, and I am your devoted Princess. I cherish any thought of you, prize any memory of you that rises from the depths of my mind, and live for the day when our physical separation will no longer be. Until that moment arrives, I send to you across the miles, my tender love, my warm embrace, and my most passionate kiss .

Love always,
Alagarajan

Blogging World ( the latest sci-fi creature )

2009-01-07T00:55:00.000-08:00

Finally , i came to blogging world ( the latest sci-fi creature ), where people use for business purposes , political , fashion , education ,and others function as more personal online diaries with articles, writings, photos, Web links or other entries made by the blogs' creators, or "bloggers."

my blog will be towards love , my own modeling , inspiration , advices and some of my memory....

As today is my first day... i share my own love quotes with u guys... which is...

1 . "Each time I miss you, a star falls down from the sky. So, if you looked up at the sky and found it dark with no stars, it is all your fault. You made me miss you too much!"

2. "If every drop of rain was a thought of you, I'd have every storming cloud in the the world inside my head and I'd still miss you."

3. "If I knew missing you was going to be a part of my life, I never would have let you in."

4. "I don't want to dream of you anymore. I want you for real."

-- ALAGARAJAN --